Many people begin their separation journey unsure whether they need a divorce or a dissolution. The terms sound similar, and in everyday conversation they’re often used interchangeably. But legally—especially in states like Ohio—they describe two very different paths. Understanding the distinction helps you choose the option that protects your time, money, and emotional wellbeing.
What Is Divorce?
A divorce is the traditional legal process for ending a marriage when spouses cannot agree on one or more key issues. These disagreements may involve parenting schedules, property division, support, or simply the terms of separation. Because conflict is present, the court becomes more involved. Each spouse typically files motions, exchanges information, and may appear before a judge. Divorce can be necessary when cooperation isn’t possible, but it often takes longer, costs more, and creates more emotional strain.
What Is Dissolution?
A dissolution of marriage is a cooperative, streamlined process used when spouses agree on everything upfront. Before filing, both parties work out a full written agreement covering parenting, finances, property, and support. Once the agreement is complete, they file together and attend a brief hearing. There’s no litigation, no accusations, and no courtroom battles. Dissolution is typically faster, less expensive, and far less stressful because the couple controls the outcome—not the court.
How to Choose the Right Path
The key question is simple: Can we agree on the terms of ending our marriage?
If yes, dissolution offers a respectful, efficient path forward.
If not, divorce provides a structure for resolving disputes when cooperation breaks down.
Why This Matters
Choosing the right process sets the tone for your entire transition. Dissolution supports dignity, stability, and emotional safety. Divorce provides structure when conflict is unavoidable. Understanding the difference empowers you to make a choice aligned with your values, your family’s needs, and your longterm wellbeing.
If you would like to learn more about these two paths for separation, you can reach us at www.winwindivorce.org
Donald Morris President Central Ohio Academy of Collaborative Divorce Professionals